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Love Advice -
Love Actions
Love. What a great feeling! Books, movies and
songs are made about it. Having watched all these movies and read all
these books and listened to all these songs all our lives, we tend to think
there is one true love for us out there somewhere and we can't be eternally
happy until we find this person.
So we look high and low and here and there and finally find someone and it
feels great. But only for a while. The first six months or so. During this
period we love everything about them. We feel totally in love. We feel like
we have found our true love.
But then most of us relate to true love like it is
a private inner feeling. And sometimes it is an inner feeling
that we feel the need to protect or hide from the object of our love. Like
if we express it we are vulnerable and we might get rejected or it might not
be fully reciprocated.
But what if you looked at love like a lighthouse? A beacon to illuminate not
just our life but the life of others? What if true love was meant to be
given away as much as possible? A feeling that is supposed to be expressed
in direct actions as often as we could, to light up the world around us?
True love is meant to be expressed. It is meant to be given away freely. It
is not supposed to be just a private inner feeling. So when you feel true
love in your life, find ways to act on it. Give it away. Shine its light
into the world around you. Shine its light onto your mate and your
family
So the insight here is to encourage you to turn love into action as often as
possible. Express it. Give it away. Show your true love. It needs to be
beamed from the rooftops rather than kept safe in the basement.
How can you do this? There are many ways, but one powerful method is to listen.
Listen to your mate or love like your life depends upon it. Focus completely
on what they are saying. Listening in this way is a powerful gift to give to
another person. Making them feel heard and understood when they share with
you is a very generous and nurturing act. It is an act of love.
Another great way to express love is looking. Yes, looking! Look them
right in the eye, drink them in while conversing. Direct eye connection is a
powerful acknowledgment. Research has shown that simple direct eye contact
diminishes over time in relationships. Don't let that happen. Show your true
love with this simple practice!
And then of course a powerful expression of true love is touch. Not just
sexual touch, but outside the bedroom. Just brushing their arm, giving hugs,
these are direct expressions of affection that touch the heart easily.
Express true love with these simple actions. Listen. Look. Touch. There are
many more ways to turn your love and light into action, but this is a
powerful foundation. Shine your light of love into the world and see what
difference it can make for everyone around you.
Action Steps You Can Take Today:
Have more small talk with your mate, and listen to
them intently. Make sure they feel heard and understood. While
doing this, look them in the eye and drink them in.
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